1:1 Coaching + Consulting with Marcia

A space to explore what you want, build the skills to talk about it, and create relationships that feel more honest and alive.

What Coaching With Me Is Like

In our sessions together, sexuality, creativity, yearning, desire, passion + purpose mix freely.

We will curl up with our laptops and a cup of tea to hash things out. Together, we will unearth clues and draw a map to your heart, building a practice of prioritizing pleasure, discovering choice, and communicating desires so you can create the kind of sex, life and love you always wanted.

You can expect:

  • A warm, shame-free space to talk about things you might not be able to talk about anywhere else

  • Honest reflection and practical tools you can immediately use in your life

  • Opportunities to practice communication and relational skills in real time

  • Thoughtful support that respects your autonomy, agency, and pace

  • A mix of depth, curiosity, and the occasional well-timed laugh

Our work together is customized, confidential and completely about you.

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Some things we can talk about:

  • Understanding and expressing your desires, boundaries and turn-ons

  • Building self-trust and embodied confidence

  • Navigating dating, relationships and intimacy

  • Undoing gendered scripts and conditioning, to find what you really want

  • Having conversations that feel scary, vulnerable or high-stakes

  • Untangling shame or confusion around sex and sexuality

  • Exploring kink, polyamory or power dynamics with care and clarity

  • Learning practical tools for consent and communication

  • Making sense of a longing for something different in your life or relationships

  • Practicing how to ask for what you want—and receive it

Sometimes coaching is about solving a specific challenge.

Sometimes it’s about creating space to discover what’s actually true for you.

Both are welcome here.

  • "I just wanted to say how grateful I am for our call today. I think part of why I felt so off today was because I was feeling pretty heavy around all of this stuff and how hard it’s felt to unlearn everything I think I know around relating to men, and sex, and all of it. But now I feel so validated and excited about where I’m at and where I’m going. Including Burning Man….love the game “homework” and I’ve already put some friends on the task :)"

    Leah R, Oakland, CA

  • "I count Marcia among my blessings.  Her excellent guidance, humor and insight have been crucial in my successful non-monogamous relationship.  She came into my life at a time when things seemed unsteady and scary, and has helped me achieve a wonderful level of honesty and understanding, and a lifelong commitment, with the man who is now my husband. She was so instrumental in our journey that we asked her to be the officiant at our ceremony!  Thank you, Marcia."

    Georgina Walsh, San Francisco

  • "Over the past year, Marcia has been instrumental in helping me grow my business and navigate my relationships from a place of authenticity, pragmatism, and courage. As someone who carries several marginalized identities and tends to live outside the box, it’s been incredibly affirming to work with someone as open-minded as Marcia. She has gone above and beyond to make me feel seen and understood while helping me navigate a number of unexpected challenges in my life and work. Her consistently supportive presence and her delightful sense of humor have been truly invaluable to my growth."

    ~Lindsay Tauscher, Washington DC

  • "Shout out to Marcia Baczynski - I am so grateful for your uncanny ability to articulate big ideas (as if rattling off what you had for dinner), your taking a stand for "hey people, this stuff is messy," and your good company (and sage advice!) along the path. #damngirl

    Stella Orange, Buffalo, NY

Ready to begin—or continue—your work?

Whether we’re just getting to know each other or picking up where you left off, these sessions are designed to meet you exactly where you are—with space, depth, and practical support.

Choose the option that fits you below:

New Client

(75 min | $250)
Start here if this is your first 1:1 session. We’ll take the time to get oriented, clarify what you want, and begin meaningful work—without feeling rushed.

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Returning Client

(60 min | $200)
For clients I’ve worked with 1:1 before, or graduates of the Good Girl Recovery Program. Come back in, reconnect, and keep building momentum.

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Ongoing, regular coaching is available at a reduced rate on a limited basis. If you would like to book regular coaching sessions, please mention it in our time together, and we can discussion options and availability.

Please note that coaching sessions are for individuals only. If you are interested in couple’s work, please see Private Workshops for Couples.

Common questions and concerns

  • All sessions are on Zoom, unless alternative arrangements are made ahead of time. You will receive the Zoom link when you book your call.

  • Yes. Your sessions are completely private and confidential. What you share stays between us, creating a space where you can speak openly, honestly, and without fear of judgment.

  • Yes, if we both explicitly agree to it, you may record. Simply request recording at the beginning of our session together or at any time during the session. Once we have agreement, you are welcome to record all or part of our conversation.

    I will never record or save our conversations.

  • Short answer: Not like what you probably have in mind.

    Long answer: Many couples come to me wanting to work with them together.

    Because the nature of my work is to help you discover what you want, both within and independent of your relationships, I primarily work 1:1 with individuals. I am happy to work with two halves of a couple in individual sessions.

    If you would like to work together with me as a couple, I recommend booking a private couples workshop, where you can practice skills and learn with each other in a protected container. If appropriate, we may then work together afterward.

    Please DO NOT book a session as a couple here unless we have previously discussed it.

  • Nope. Therapy often focuses on healing the past and treating mental health concerns, while coaching is more future-oriented—focused on where you are now and what you want to create.

    My work blends coaching and education. It’s experiential, trauma-informed, and practical. You can expect honest conversations, useful distinctions, clear frameworks and hands-on practices that help you understand yourself—and actually do something different.

    We may touch on the past, but the focus is on building skills, expanding your capacity, and creating the relationships, sexuality, and life you want.

  • Yes, I do business consulting for touch, consent and sexuality practitioners around marketing, workshop design, facilitation and professional development.

    To book a session, follow the guidelines at the bottom of this page, and be sure to let me know a little about what you’d like to cover in the notes when you book. The same rates apply as for coaching.

  • I offer supervision for touch, consent and sexuality professionals on a limited basis.

    To inquire about supervision, schedule a free 30-minute chat here. Be sure to let me know this is what you’d like to discuss in the notes when you schedule. Rates vary depending on your practice.