Take Your Desire Seriously
what you want deserves attention. Yours first.
Figuring out what lights you up and turns you on is hard enough.
Talking about it can seem impossible.
I’m here to help.
I offer coaching, workshops and programs for adults ready to build more self-trust, communicate clearly and create honest, connected relationships.
This work is for you if…
You’re tired of overriding your own wants
You struggle to know or say what you want
You’re done with people-pleasing, performing or abandoning yourself
You want more honesty, self-trust and turn-on
You want relationships rooted in truth, choice and connection
You want practical tools, not just insight
Hi There!
I'm Marcia B.
For over 20 years, I’ve guided thousands in exploring desire, consent, communication, and self-trust. I combine practical tools with experiential learning to help people relate with honesty, freedom, and choice.
I’m currently serving as faculty at the School of Consent, Shakti Shiva Academy and the Esalen Institute and I am the co-author of Creating Consent Culture. I’m absolutely obsessed with the question: “What do you do when you notice what you want?”
what We do here:
Trust yourself more deeply
Learn to recognize what’s true for you—and act on it—so you can become someone you trust.
Say
what you mean
Communicate clearly, make cleaner asks and navigate hard conversations confidently.
Explore
without shame
Bring your questions, complexity and curiosity without needing to clean them up first.
Get Honest
about desire
Untangle what you want, what you don’t and what feels aligned.
Build real-world relational skills
Practical tools for boundaries, communication, consent and connection.
Create change you can actually feel
Experiential work that turns insight into something you can practice, embody and live.
Hey Marcia, I’d love to...
Whether you want personal support, an immersive group experience, professional development or a workshop for your community, I got you covered.
Start with the starter Kit
Curious but not ready to commit?
This free Starter Kit helps you:
• Notice what you want
• Strengthen your yes and your no
• Practice embodied consent in daily life
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Ready to take your desire seriously?
Private coaching, group experiences, workshops — there’s a path here for you. Let’s get started: