Needs and Self-Care

Mother’s Day Is Complicated

Mother's Day is complicated. Nonetheless, I hope you have a happy day. For those of you who have good relationships with your mother... Or have good relationships with your children... For those of you who have lost your mothe [...]

Mother’s Day Is Complicated2018-07-01T16:25:14+00:00

14 Ways to Find Stability (When Everything Has Gone Bonkers)

The world around us is bananas right now. Each day brings a fresh deluge of awful news, and it seems like the world as we know it is coming apart at the seams. Everywhere I look right now, the story is the same: Dozens of my c [...]

14 Ways to Find Stability (When Everything Has Gone Bonkers)2018-07-01T16:32:30+00:00

How to Talk to Your Monsters

We all want stuff in our relationships. Better sex. More sex. To not have to take the trash out. 15 extra minutes in the morning for snuggles. Whatever. Let's assume you know what you want. Why aren't you asking for it? If you [...]

How to Talk to Your Monsters2018-07-01T22:03:15+00:00

On Being Needy

"I don't want to be too needy." I hear this all the time. Sometimes it comes up when I suggest a client ask for something mundane, but it's especially common when I'm helping clients get in touch with what they really want mos [...]

On Being Needy2018-07-01T22:08:43+00:00

Needs, Wants and Deal-Breakers

A client once came to me with a long list of requirements another coach had told her to make about her future husband. He had to be tall, and good looking, and wealthy, and able to be a good father, and emotionally available, [...]

Needs, Wants and Deal-Breakers2018-07-01T22:22:14+00:00
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