New Year, New You?

New Year New You? That’s what all the advertisements say right now. It’s a new year, you should lose weight. It’s a new year, you should make more money. It’s a new year, it’s time to finally find a partner. It’s a new year, b [...]

New Year, New You? 2018-07-01T21:14:30+00:00

The Naked Truth About Desire Smuggling

The world is not friendly to our desires. In over a decade of relationship coaching and sex ed, I’ve talked with thousands of people about why they don’t ask for what they want. Reasons include: not knowing what to want, not h [...]

The Naked Truth About Desire Smuggling 2018-07-01T21:23:26+00:00

Embrace Your Erotic Creativity

Asking for what you want — in love, in sex, in relationships — requires creativity. Yet fear, shyness, and plain old being stuck in a rut can keep you from being creative in and out of the bedroom. Erotic cr [...]

Embrace Your Erotic Creativity 2018-07-01T22:06:02+00:00

Needs, Wants and Deal-Breakers

A client once came to me with a long list of requirements another coach had told her to make about her future husband. He had to be tall, and good looking, and wealthy, and able to be a good father, and emotionally available, [...]

Needs, Wants and Deal-Breakers 2018-07-01T22:22:14+00:00