Your Relationship. Only Better.

Dear friend,

I have an unusual question for you to consider today. But I want you to really think about it:

Did anyone ever teach you how to have a TOTALLY AWESOME relationship?

The kind where you know exactly what you both want, need and desire… and know how to give these riches to each other?

A partnership that  leaves you astonished, inspired and grateful?

Where you’re both psyched to be involved with each other? When it’s mutually satisfying, inherently creative, enriching, fun, and DEEPLY fulfilling?

Where you both end up happy and blissed out most of the time, and can’t stop smiling a goofy smile — even after you’ve been together for years?!

I’m guessing the answer is No.

Imagine a relationship that is rich, juicy and satisfying.  Perhaps a friendship for the ages or a partnership that makes your toes curl and your heart sing. It could be with a person destined to become family or someone you met only recently. You could even have more than one awesome relationship — If only someone taught you how.

But the sad thing is, most of us never learn how.

The thing is, having the most awesome relationship ever is HARD.

 

You can tell because there are so many “gurus” and “experts” out there trying to tell you how to do it, yet people like you still struggle.

And there’s just so much STUFF out there. It’s overwhelming, time-consuming, and if you do enough of them, expensive! There’s conflicting info. Half of it is full of fluff and woo-woo, or it’s not “real,” or it’s distasteful.

There’s a lot of slick marketing, preying on your insecurities, rather than giving you solid, real, compassionate information.

It kind of sucks.

And you’re still stuck wondering, “What do I have to do to make this really work?”

But you (and I) know it’s possible.

Ask yourself:

• Do you know how to listen so your partner opens up to you about the stuff you most want to hear?
• Does your partner know how to keep you floating and high on love, consistently? (Would you know what to tell them if they asked what it would take? )
• Do your relationships reflect your most important values?
• Are your most basic needs being met in your relationship? (Are you 100% clear about what those are? Or what to do if they’re not being met?)

Would things be different if you DID know how to do these things?

I bet it would be.

The problem with most relationship courses is that they fail to take into account YOU. The real you. With all of the things that make you (and your partner) awesome.

The secret to having the Most Awesome Relationship Ever is in knowing the basics of what makes you tick. So that you can share it with your partner (and find out what makes their heart sing.)

That’s where the Nuts and Bolts come in.

In this six-part virtual course, you’ll get 6 core exercises I do with each and every one of my private clients, and leave with a custom blueprint of what makes YOU shiniest and happiest in your relationship. When you can have your Nuts and Bolts figured out, you can have the most awesome relationship ever… the one that’s right for YOU.

Along the way, you’ll learn:

• What your feelings are telling you and why (and how!) you should listen to them
• How to figure out what your needs are and how to get them met (including what to do if you’re afraid of being needy)
• What boundaries REALLY are (and the questions to ask to find out where your boundaries lay)
• The most common cause of mis-communication and the surprisingly simple secret to side-stepping this trap
• The 3 non-sleazy ways to get your partner to open up to you — even if they have a hard time doing so
• Your favorite ways of hiding and disconnecting — and the crucial things this tells you about your desires
• What Relationship Role Models are, and how to use them to radically transform your own relationship
• My top tips for talking about the hard stuff, and how to come out feeling closer than ever

You’ll have a clearer sense than ever of what makes you happy and satisfied in a relationship, and you’ll be able to share with your partner what makes you tick, squirm, squeal, hide, and blossom.

Best of all, when you know these things about yourself, you’ll be able to see yourself and your relationship in a whole new way, allowing for more depth, richness and connection.

You’ll understand your patterns and habits and be able to engage them with your partner in healthy, inspiring ways and change your relationship patterns forever.

Other programs can’t do this, because they try to do a one-size-fits-all approach. The Nuts and Bolts is about finding YOUR fundamental relationship desires, which is the #1 secret to happy, healthy, fulfilling relationships.

The answers aren’t in Cosmo, The Rules, or The Game. They’re inside you, and this course will help you find them.

Whoa! I want that! Sign me up!

 (Use coupon code “100NB” to save $100 today!)

Ok, lady, that sounds good, but who are you and why are you telling me this?

My name is Marcia Baczynski, and I’ve been a relationship coach for over 8 years. I’ve worked with thousands of people to help them uncover, and ask for, the things that matter most to them in relationship, exploring everything from sex to money to intimacy to commitment.

This is where I’m supposed to tell you “I was once like you but now I have it all figured out.”

I could tell you a story that started out with “My journey as a relationship coach began at age 9, when, within days of my mother sitting me down to teach me about the birds and the bees, I blithely informed my younger brother about periods, menstrual pads and where babies come from.”  Then I could tell you about the pain and suffering and how awful it was, and how I never thought I’d find a way out, but then I found the secret and now I have all the answers and everything is all sunshine and lollipops!

But there are two problems with that.

The first is that I’ve never been bad at relationships. In fact, most of my relationships (romantic and otherwise) have been pretty great, low-drama, and fulfilling. Relationships are something I’m good at, and trying to pretend otherwise is just icky.

The second problem is this: when it comes to relationships, I don’t think anyone ever can have it all figured out. And because I like knowing the answers to things, believe me, I’ve tried.

In the course of my work, I’ve seen it all. From bizarre “man-catching” techniques and tricks to “get women to sleep with you,” to woo-woo meditations to open your heart chakra and the sex moves that will “have him begging for more.”  Never mind the gurus who suggest anything from rearranging your furniture, to joining a cult, to taking “mind-expanding” drugs in service of making your relationships better. (Hey, I live in the Bay Area. It’s weird here.)

And I’ve done a lot of this stuff. I read “The Rules” with an open mind, and ate up “The Game” like it was popcorn. I’ve co-taught with some of the best teachers out there and had the people I looked up to friend me first on Facebook.

From kinky best practices to the latest brain sex research to religious advice on marriage… I keep up with it all. I love it, I live it, and I’m passionate about it. One could even say I’m obsessed with it.

But the thing is, YOU don’t need to know it all. You just need to know YOURSELF and YOUR PARTNER. And to be able to communicate in a way that makes it more likely that you both get what you want.

Fortunately, I LIVE to help people like you figure this stuff out.

And time, and time again, in my personal life and with my clients, no matter how much I learn, I always return to a handful of tools that Just. Freakin’. Work. Keeping you connected, feeling loved, and communicating well, regardless of what life throws at you or how your relationship evolves.  The Nuts and Bolts, the good stuff, the things I teach every single client that walks through my door.

And that’s why I created this course for you.

 

OMG, That sounds amazing! Sign me up!

(Use coupon code “100NB” to save $100 today!)

So, What do I get?

When you sign up for “The Nuts and Bolts” you get:

• 6 Nuts and Bolts recordings each covering a core relationship skill for making the Most Awesome Relationship Ever ($900 value!)
• 10 Weekly “Adventures in Real Life” activities to gently remind you about the next step and help you put what you’re learning into practice – emailed directly to you ($600 value)
• The “You In Love” blueprint customized with your own needs, values and love-map (super-handy for explaining to your loved ones the TOTALLY OBVIOUS things you need and want!) – ($150 value, but by the end of the course, as the ad says: Priceless.)
• BONUS: Complimentary recording of Marcia’s “Guilt Free Boundaries” teleclass and worksheet. ($39 value)

The total value of this course is nearly $1800, and my private clients happily pay that for access to these tools. However, because I so very much want as many people as possible to have access to these tools your investment is only $247 $147! (Use coupon code “100NB” to get your discount!)

 

(Use coupon code “100NB” to save $100 today!)

Warning! This course is NOT for you if you..

• Prefer to think that your partner should “just know” how to best love you
• Think “that’s just how men/women are” and aren’t willing to dig deeper
• Want to game the system and think of relationships as a thing to “get”
• Approach your relationship life as a problem to be solved and want a quick-fix solution
• Are more interested in complaining than taking action
• Are unwilling to experiment with new ideas, tools or techniques

Who this IS for:

This course is perfect for you if you…

• Want tried-and-true methods that will make your most important relationships rock (and will also work elsewhere!)
• Are tired of repeating old relationship patterns and want to finally get your needs and desires met once and for all.
• Like the idea of knowing yourself and your partner better, but can’t work out exactly what you should be putting your attention on.
• Are taking steps toward more commitment and want solid skills to make it stable, happy and mutually satisfying
• Have a hard time figuring out or talking about what matters most to you
• Want to save money (after all, breakups and couples’ counseling is expensive!)
• Are tired of your partner missing the things that seem totally obvious to you
• Are ready to be in a relationship after a break and want to do it right.
• Need to find more balance between your own needs and desires, and those of your partner’s
• Want to know what an awesome, ongoing relationship looks like, and how to have one in your life.
• Need reliable “go-tos” that will consistently and dependably help you get through the hiccups in your own awesome relationship.
• Desire an approach that takes into account YOUR  quirkiness and values, as well as those of your partner.
• Don’t want to always be “working on your relationship” so that you can have fun IN your relationship.
• Wished you had a real-life mentor who could show you exactly what to do, step-by-step, to gain access to the relationship of your dreams – starting now
• Love my workshops, articles and interviews and have been waiting for an affordable way to personally work with me!

Ohh! That’s me! I wanna sign up!

(Use coupon code “100NB” to save $100 today!)

You’ve still got questions? We’ve got answers!

Why does it cost so much less than your regular programs?

I’ve spent years researching and exploring the most practical, useful and memorable tools and techniques that work in just about every relationship situation. These are the tools I use with every private client who walks through my door. (And those clients pay thousands of dollars to work with me.) Some might say the price is too low. Well, simply put, all the information in the world is no good if I can’t share it with the people who want it. That’s why it’s priced affordably.

When will I get the recordings?

You get access to the recordings and Blueprint files immediately. Then, each week you’ll get a gentle email reminder in your inbox, inviting you to listen to the recording or do an exercise. This way, you can do all of the material at once, or follow along each week. Your choice!

Will you run this course live again?

I don’t know. Maybe. I’m really excited about this material but I’m also insanely busy with my clients, my projects and having fun with my sweetie. The real question is, why wait? When you sign up for Nuts and Bolts this time, then you don’t have to worry about if it’ll happen again.

How do I know that this is going to be useful for me?

I offer a 30 day, 100% money-back guarantee. If within 30 days of purchase, you aren’t totally satisfied, I am happy to refund every single penny. If it’s not useful, you don’t pay! (I am seriously committed to this being something you can use in your life every single day.)

Getting your Nuts and Bolts sorted out is easy as pie! Just click the button below!

(Use coupon code “100NB” to save $100 today!)

PS – If you’re ready to make your relationship absolutely incredible, then don’t wait to sign up! When you purchase now, you get my bonus recording of “Guilt-Free Boundaries — a $39 value on its own! – Right away!